hi, havent been posting for a while... so lets start the post with a happy note. was at kbox with ngee yong yesterday at cine. then "supposed" to watch movie with wenjie, peishan, deren, puay hian.
ya, then deren overslept, puay hian is sick, and i was busy with helping ngee yong for fac idol (supposed to la). so BY RIGHT, left wenjie and peishan *wink wink*
but they suddenly told me they were at cine with ruth. wah i xia dao la. supposed to meet at suntec, suddenly they appear at cine. gosh. then i know cannot escape le ma, and ruth was around anyway, so not my fault that *wink wink*...
anyway, peishan and wenjie pei wo go bugis cut hair... exxxx la ok, $23.80 after discount. but nvm la, im happy with the results. though my styling skills sux like anything. nvm, shall keep the natural look to school tml. at least it's better than styling some style-which-must-not-be-seen hair.
must say thank you to peishan and wenjie lehs. wah i feel so xing fu (and uber bright), so have dunjie yongxian pei wo buy guitar, then wenjie peishan pei wo cut hair. must say xie xie, thank you, arigato, terimakasih, pipanigelongdingdong (ok, this is kouped from chun kang. but wadeva la :P)
hmm. so kinda happening this wk ah, new guitar, new hair. just finished gp essay (to me consider "big" hmk). and got chem test tml... gonna start studying after blogging. oh ya, i still remember 3 days ago i was thinking how abandoned our class blog is, but 3 days later, yes indeed, many new posts. but... i rather that all that didnt happen and posting is as rare as b4... i mean, i really dunno how ______ is going to face ______ and how are they going to tok.
why is this happening? it's like sooooo sudden. and i dont think anyone has any idea how to salvage the situation. so please, get it clear. personally i think that the impt thing is abt this conflict, and not abt wad moderating posts, cliques, dropping a bombshell abt quitting as welfare rep or being a cynic and listing a list of ppl in the class and saying rather nasty stuff.
i know ppl are going to get offended abt this. but i just have to say it... why must we create so much unhappiness or dunno wad over the span of a short wkend. wad on earth is happening? everyone please calm down and think carefully. dont make rash decisions or reply rashly... it affects ppl u know. so everyone chill ok? dont make our class blog into a battle field. it's like so contrasting la, a daoed barren land into a bloody battle field overnight. dont do this. my heart cannot take it.
i agree with wad chun kang said in the class blog and wenjie said in his blog (dunno if any others did talk abt it). also wad peishan and i were chatting abt makes a lot of sense too.
chanel handbags we all mean the same thing - we are a class, so can we please be one whole as a class. there's no point being cynical and just thinking that our class is not going to make it as a whole, there'll always be cliques. i mean come on, how is this going to solve the problem???
im not trying to be some idealist here and go, "everyone calm down and befriend each other. cannot quarrel, must he mu gong chu." it's practically impossible. but please at least attempt can? if everyone puts in a little effort, the whole situation will change lots.
we all have our differences, thats definitely true. and it's not possible to like and befriend everyone. but pls at least not keep such a negative attitude and just be a loner or stick to a clique can? think abt it carefully, for those ppl who isolate bcos they think cliques are forming and the class is not being united, arent u trying to form ur own clique as well, arent u just trying to be a loner and stick with the same ppl? so isnt it the same ultimately?
some ppl ARE liddat, we cannot have many gd frens, but a few really gd ones. then so be it? why bother changing? personally im like that too! but i dont just stick with ppl im closer to and ignore everyone else just cos they have their own closer frens! if i cannot be best frens with someone, or even a good fren, could we at lest be aquaintances? do we have to be strangers or worse, enemies? why do we want to derive so much misery from being in a class when joy is within reach?
so come on ppl. start thinking abt it. u all may think im in no position to lecture, but im speaking the truth. we need to bond closer. must we be a giant covalent molecule with singly atoms bonded together? wads wrong with diatomic molecules, or organic compounds that come together after being in grps of atoms? must it be 1 by 1? i think that as long as the end result is a bonded grp of atoms, who cares if in the process we have smaller grps of atoms bonded together in the first place?
so. stop any cynical thoughts u might have. stop picking on ppl or isolating urself. walk out of it. join the 6D family. and let's bond together ok? and make our class blog a better place to visit and post instead of all the angst and sarcasm and evident cruelty and pinpointing. give urself and everyone else a break.